I started out with BBSes back in the 80s. Fidonet and Usenet in the 90s. Forums and later Reddit.
My first BBS was for the Commodore 64.
Where did you start?
Battle.net on my 166mz with dialup. In like 99 when I was 10. Starcraft for the win.
Several years back, learning that you'd started in BBS-land made lots of aspects of Stardock fora 'click' for me. The bandwidth back then was, um, laughable in comparison and the world appeared monochrome, but it was somehow more exciting and. And it was easier, at least for me, to find spaces where the moderators were active and focused on free but civil discussion.
I'm going to go with GameFAQs in the '90s.
From there it was a variety of gaming forums. Some of those were created and managed by me and a couple of friends. Then on to Reddit!